Dry January: Sober Curious

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  1. BudKilmer

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  2. Artoo

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    Also the shortest month
     
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  3. Beagle

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    Same. I hate the taste of alcohol.
     
  4. Celemo

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    As a high functioning alcoholic, I don’t understand you or my homie duc15
     
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  5. duc15

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    I hate being drunk, I hate being hungover, I hate not being in complete control
     
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  6. Joe Withabee

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    Pretty sure that is a direct quote from Hitler
     
  7. DaveGrohl

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    Same here. Drinking also ruined my weight loss recently so I’m just on an indefinite break with alcohol. And I can’t afford the two-day hangovers that come with 4+ beers anymore.
     
  8. i am a bammer

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    Does weed count
     
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  9. Gunners

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    I may die early but function better than most sober folks
     
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  10. LuPoor

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    I made it 14 hours
     
  11. The Real Roy Williams

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    April 17th will be one year sober for me. My life was on the brink of complete disaster this time last year. Things are so much better today. I was what I considered a high functioning alcoholic for a long long time but it eventually caught up to me and I became a very sick person.
     
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  12. Daniel Ocean

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  13. Bricktop the white

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    im doing it for the first time this year.
     
  14. Gunners

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    Props bud.
     
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  15. Charles DeMar

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    I did a dry NYE last night for the first time in 25 years (last time was when I was 16) and it actually wasn’t that bad, may try a dry January, as well. I had a glass of wine on Christmas day while hosting a bunch of family and a beer during the OSU game on Saturday night, but nothing else since a bad night (and subsequent 2-day hangover) in early December.
     
  16. The Real Roy Williams

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    Thanks man.
     
  17. Gunners

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    Normally I'm fine but I decided to start drinking bulleit at beginning of rose bowl today
     
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  18. Nelson

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    yikes
     
  19. Daniel Ocean

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    exactly
     
  20. DrTomOsbourne

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    This is me.

    I had a SHITTY hangover awhile back and it's just not worth it anymore. I can have just as much fun while having half the drinks or less. I was sober last night and it felt good waking up this morning not hungover for the first new year's day in literal years. Probably start slowly cutting it out. It's just tough because it's so engrained in almost everything you do.
     
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  21. DetectivePopcorn

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    I would give it a try if it wasn’t for my near crippling alcoholism.
     
  22. The Real Roy Williams

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    I was a daily bourbon drinker for years. My problem was I knew I was alcoholic but was convinced I could manage my life. I went to work everyday, own my home, etc. You would think that going into withdrawals and shakes after 3 hours without a drink for years would tell me my life was shit but it took almost dying and the people closest to me begging for me to ask for help. I have a healthy fear of what it can do to you.
     
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  23. DetroitIrish3

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    I’m going to try until March for my birthday.
     
  24. spagett

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    Spent the better part of the day groaning at instances where I might have said some dumb shit last night.

    Probably gonna take it easy for a bit.
     
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  25. Why?Pokes

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    I’m going dry till the end of the month (my bday), not because of the interwebs, but because LadyPokes asked me to pick a month to “support” the pregnancy and I wanna get it out of the way as fast as possible.
     
  26. Shawn Hunter

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    It’s easy unless your addicted. Just drink some non-alcoholic beverage.
     
  27. infected donkey

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    Make a non alcoholic shrub drink. Looks like one and no one will question you while out.
     
  28. FTK

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    Am I your brother in law?
     
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  29. MtOread

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    +1. Did this for the first time last year and planning to do so again this year.
     
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  30. GeneralPaton

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    Certainly hope not
     
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  31. Simon Templar

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    I’ve found the breaking point came for me at 39. Gonna have to start paying much better attention to my nutrition and I’m not happy about it.
     
  32. DeToxRox

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    I’m 34 and I’ve never tried alcohol, tobacco or any drugs. Never been curious to try, never felt like I was missing anything either. I am a pretty stubborn person so peer pressure just turned me off of even considering it, I guess.

    Good luck to those going dry, staying sober, etc.
     
  33. BWC

    BWC It was the BOAT times, it was the WOAT times
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    Or his neighbor does
     
  34. Bruce Bowen

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    I think the longest dry streak I had was like 20 days when I tried to do whole 30. Have a bachelor party end of the month so maybe I'll try going dry till then.
     
  35. Bruce Bowen

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    Unless you've got oils weed ain't wet so doesn't count imo
     
  36. jrmy

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    Impressive. You're not missing out on anything tbh.
     
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  37. LuPoor

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    Lead up to a bachelor party is exactly when i would not go dry. Gonna demolish your alcohol processing ability
     
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  38. Bruce Bowen

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  39. TC

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    I'm doing it, but not starting January 1. Maybe mid Jan to mid Feb or so
     
  40. Gaknight

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    Does doing this really have any benefit if you just pick up where you left off at drinking after the month?
     
  41. TC

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    One month less of effects?
     
  42. BWC

    BWC It was the BOAT times, it was the WOAT times
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    Also the potential to realize you don't need the booze to enjoy life.
     
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  43. LuPoor

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    Pffff i don't drink it to enjoy life, i drink it to escape the ravages of having 2 kids and a stressful job
     
  44. Gaknight

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    I guess my point is what really is dry January other than some look at me fad? If someone really wanted to make a change why not make a more permanent effort like I won’t drink on Sundays or cutting out drinking on the weekdays?

    Most of the people I have seen do this seem to do it for Facebook likes and then are out raging harder than ever after like I didn’t drink for January as their new excuse.
     
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  45. TC

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    I don't think those people have become adults yet. We are talking about some grownup shit
     
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  46. BWC

    BWC It was the BOAT times, it was the WOAT times
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    I'm no teetotaler...just adding some other possible benefits that were assumed away by Gaknight

    Edit: I agree 100% with his addendum
     
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  47. Houndster

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    But you kill people regularly because you’re a serial killer
     
  48. DeToxRox

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    I didn’t say I’ve never drank blood
     
  49. tylerdolphin

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    I dont drink while I'm at sea so I always have ~6 months sober every year. I figure I probably drink too much when I'm home but fuck it, 6 months off has to do me some good.
     
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  50. 2

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    I am trying to cut back, not quit. I was and occasionally still can be a problem binge drinker. I’m a beer guy and my goal following this hiatus is capping at 3 beers per day max, and 6 per week max. I’d say I’m double that on average currently and was far worse than that 3-5 years ago.

    I found the one time I was successful in making it all January my tolerance was recalibrated to something that I would perceive to be more normal. That’s what I am seeking now. Also, the first time was more of a challenge in can you do it, rather than seeking a change in habit.

    I have kids that are reaching an age of understanding and I don’t want their childhood norms in parental consumption to match what mine were as a kid.

    Responsible social drinking or things like enjoying a drink with my wife or while grilling is my end goal. It would also be fun to become a beer cunt and learn about what I am tasting/enjoying rather than drinking to get drunk.
     
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