Same here. Drinking also ruined my weight loss recently so I’m just on an indefinite break with alcohol. And I can’t afford the two-day hangovers that come with 4+ beers anymore.
April 17th will be one year sober for me. My life was on the brink of complete disaster this time last year. Things are so much better today. I was what I considered a high functioning alcoholic for a long long time but it eventually caught up to me and I became a very sick person.
I did a dry NYE last night for the first time in 25 years (last time was when I was 16) and it actually wasn’t that bad, may try a dry January, as well. I had a glass of wine on Christmas day while hosting a bunch of family and a beer during the OSU game on Saturday night, but nothing else since a bad night (and subsequent 2-day hangover) in early December.
This is me. I had a SHITTY hangover awhile back and it's just not worth it anymore. I can have just as much fun while having half the drinks or less. I was sober last night and it felt good waking up this morning not hungover for the first new year's day in literal years. Probably start slowly cutting it out. It's just tough because it's so engrained in almost everything you do.
I was a daily bourbon drinker for years. My problem was I knew I was alcoholic but was convinced I could manage my life. I went to work everyday, own my home, etc. You would think that going into withdrawals and shakes after 3 hours without a drink for years would tell me my life was shit but it took almost dying and the people closest to me begging for me to ask for help. I have a healthy fear of what it can do to you.
Spent the better part of the day groaning at instances where I might have said some dumb shit last night. Probably gonna take it easy for a bit.
I’m going dry till the end of the month (my bday), not because of the interwebs, but because LadyPokes asked me to pick a month to “support” the pregnancy and I wanna get it out of the way as fast as possible.
I’ve found the breaking point came for me at 39. Gonna have to start paying much better attention to my nutrition and I’m not happy about it.
I’m 34 and I’ve never tried alcohol, tobacco or any drugs. Never been curious to try, never felt like I was missing anything either. I am a pretty stubborn person so peer pressure just turned me off of even considering it, I guess. Good luck to those going dry, staying sober, etc.
I think the longest dry streak I had was like 20 days when I tried to do whole 30. Have a bachelor party end of the month so maybe I'll try going dry till then.
Lead up to a bachelor party is exactly when i would not go dry. Gonna demolish your alcohol processing ability
Does doing this really have any benefit if you just pick up where you left off at drinking after the month?
Pffff i don't drink it to enjoy life, i drink it to escape the ravages of having 2 kids and a stressful job
I guess my point is what really is dry January other than some look at me fad? If someone really wanted to make a change why not make a more permanent effort like I won’t drink on Sundays or cutting out drinking on the weekdays? Most of the people I have seen do this seem to do it for Facebook likes and then are out raging harder than ever after like I didn’t drink for January as their new excuse.
I'm no teetotaler...just adding some other possible benefits that were assumed away by Gaknight Edit: I agree 100% with his addendum
I dont drink while I'm at sea so I always have ~6 months sober every year. I figure I probably drink too much when I'm home but fuck it, 6 months off has to do me some good.
I am trying to cut back, not quit. I was and occasionally still can be a problem binge drinker. I’m a beer guy and my goal following this hiatus is capping at 3 beers per day max, and 6 per week max. I’d say I’m double that on average currently and was far worse than that 3-5 years ago. I found the one time I was successful in making it all January my tolerance was recalibrated to something that I would perceive to be more normal. That’s what I am seeking now. Also, the first time was more of a challenge in can you do it, rather than seeking a change in habit. I have kids that are reaching an age of understanding and I don’t want their childhood norms in parental consumption to match what mine were as a kid. Responsible social drinking or things like enjoying a drink with my wife or while grilling is my end goal. It would also be fun to become a beer cunt and learn about what I am tasting/enjoying rather than drinking to get drunk.