I love a drink as much as anyone but if I found myself having violent impulses like that while drinking I think it would be time to seriously consider stopping. Probably should suggest that to the wife if you're staying. You shouldn't stay though.
a) i’ll believe he’s serious about gun security when i see it b) ignoring the wife’s behavior, i don’t think someone who pulled a gun on a delivery driver for perceived petty theft should own a gun either
Wife is now work from home for I don’t know how long. I’ve always wfh but her office is now closed because of Covid and no plans to reopen yet. Could prob post in the annoying coworkers thread but she treats company wide “meetings” like they’re personal. She takes notes during them
You guys have to get inside the mind of Mrs Hoss. Hoss was willing to pull a gun on a delivery driver who took his package but wouldn’t pull a gun when it was her pizza. He should have stuck up for her but either way, someone was having a gun pulled on them.
Hoss Bonaventure - not talking shit, I hope you get the necessary adjustments made and don't claim to know anyone else's family/relationships. But am I understanding correctly that your wife still has a gun and you are unaware of where it is? If so, that seems like step one to resolve.
This wasn't exactly a confidence builder buddy. I wish you the best sincerely but it should be a booze/gun free home unless everything is heavily resolved. just my 2 cents or just gtfo out for an interim period depending on how much you want to maintain the relationship with the wife.
On a scale of 1-10 how much are you trying to trigger soulfly - haha Should double down and throw out a Chaplin insult.
Shit, we both stuck at home now. I know where it’s at now though. I mentioned it but it’s her gun. I didn’t know she still had it or just blindly assumed if she had it was in her closet. She had a .22 pistol that she gave back to her dad and I didn’t know what she did with the .38 he gave her. I kinda assumed it was in her closet or she gave it back as well. I wasn’t sure though and never looked for it. We moved since the whole delivery driver if that makes sense. The last time I saw it would have been in our old place.
I say this with zero humor/trolling/joking: I think your circumstance is unacceptable for you and your child, and I believe that both of you will be harmed physically and/or mentally unless you and your wife make significant changes. Pulling a gun on a spouse in a home with a child is so beyond the magnitude of “we’ll work on it,” that I question your mental state if you believe significant changes aren’t needed.
Let's just not take the Hoss Bonaventure stuff seriously and move on. I will choose to believe he's bullshitting somewhat
If what happened is true then Hoss doesn't care enough to pull the trigger on the changes that are needed. Either way we're not going to make a difference if getting stabbed isn't a deterrent.
That’s big of you but based on my metrics we still have two more pages of opinions to read. Hang in there.
If you are so worried about the overall safety of your child (which we hear all day in the Covid thread), why the fuck are you still with a wife who has pulled a gun on you multiple times?
No that was a girl I dated in hs. Not my wife. She would have been in elementary school when I was in hs.
just to set the record here...i am anti vax because i don't have a meltdown about eating outside as a fully boosted and vaxxed guy all while thinking pulling guns on people is normal stuff? shut the fuck up man you've lost the plot
What the hell is going on in here? We have a guy more concerned about COVID affecting his child than his wife literally pointing a gun at his head? Get the fuck out of your house man.
100%, mine is a ridiculous premise and mild annoyance - but barring catastrophe will not be life threatening.
Hey guys I don’t think arguing with someone not immediately concerned about his wife angrily pointing a loaded gun at him that he should be concerned about his wife angrily pointing a loaded gun at him is going to change his opinion. If he gets murdered and his kid gets put in foster care is entirely his business. Let’s get back to our regularly scheduled programming. Can someone’s wife spend $20,000 on chairs again?
Every marriage is different. Stop projecting y’all’s deep fear of being murdered by your wives. Hilljacks don’t murder they maim.
It's the gift that keeps on giving - if anyone wants to pick up cardboard in WEHO anytime soon or maybe just steal a chair or two upon delivery, LFG