I don't think it is kink shaming to say that certain kinks 100% could lead to more sexual assaults than others. It has nothing to do with the predilection of person to the kink making them a deviant, but simply how close the kink comes to breaking laws and how those lines can easily get blurred, and therefore crossed.
Wanting to spit on, choke and generally demean barely legal girls is really pushing the limits of acceptable behavior. That borders on someone who wants to humiliate and generally doesn't like women which can go south under the right conditions, clearly
At least 2 of the girls said they did not consent to choking and video taping didn't they? That alone should stop any rational person from defending him at all but yet here we are.
personally I don’t have any problem kink shaming people who fantasize about things like sexual assault or pedophilia.
If your choking out girls who are young enough to be your daughter idgaf that is creepy as shit and means u have some dark disgusting thoughts and issues running thru ur head in other aspects of life…….in which this dude seems to get off on trolling people as a man in his mid 40s seems to be fitting
disagree this is dangerously close to saying a certain type of music or video games makes you more violent. I find certain acts people engage in sexually gross as long as I don’t discriminate against anyone because of it I can think whatever I want.
When people try and white knight this shit I always wonder if they have daughters and if they would be ok with this being their 20 year old daughter? I have a buddy who is sort of objectifies women at times but we were tailgating and a college age student walked by with her ass hanging out of her shorts and I could see some despair in his eyes. I asked if the fact that you have four daughters and two that are 18 changes things and he said yup.
its becoming mostly accepted that violent video games lead to increased aggression/destructive behaviors at this point
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.00384/full good lit review and research expansion. holds for other violent media as well but violent videogames tend to be the worst culprits. its one of those weird topics where the consensus mainstream view is very out of step with the actual research.
Ehhh. There is small correlation, but to say there is a casual connection isn’t true. The APA puts out statements what feels like every year about this.
Candidly, I only skimmed the study, but in my opinion, I don’t think it really supports your prior statement. It was a small study of Chinese students that entirely involved self reported responses. It also didn’t even ask about exposure to violent media/internet/television, home life, or violent social life. Again, I skimmed the study, so I could’ve missed your point.
so you skipped the entire lit review portion too thats fine, but its largely a consensus stance. https://www.researchgate.net/profil...dren-and-pediatricians-and-parents-concur.pdf
I don't think it's remotely settled but it's hard to ignore the majority of the research points one direction.
It does, but from the admitted light reading that I’ve done so far, a lot of those studies are relying on really subjective inputs, and haven’t done a great job isolating other violent variables. With that as a preface, it would make sense that exposure to incredibly violent media/entertainment could make kids less affected by violent confrontations in real life. I’m still skeptical of correlation vs. causation findings though.
I think it’s weird for dads to think about their daughter’s sex lives when they’re adults. I think there’s some bizarre underlying issues at play if that’s the case. I think fathers who know they raised their kids to be strong, independent adults don’t get that brain worm infestation that dads who plop their kids in front of Pepa Pig, hand them an iPad, shirk the real responsibilities off on mom do. Maybe his despair is the recognition he’s a savage and didn’t prepare his daughters for the real world?
it was an task force looking at research that came to conclusion, not the “APA” for political purposes. Also, no one who does this work thinks that exposure to violent video games is a primary driver of violence. To say things like “its becoming mostly accepted that violent video games lead to increased aggression/destructive behaviors at this point” is not in line with the research or field work.
I never said it was primary and that's why apa downplays the factor as it isn't remotely feasible to address it politically either. But it's not tenable to say it isn't a factor.
I don’t want to ruin the whole thread. So I’ll just leave it at there are tons of other environmental/biological factors that people should look to when trying explain violence or other inappropriate behaviors instead of video games.
Or more likely the realization that he spent his entire life up until that point not thinking of women as people and regrets it when he sees that behavior in others now.
This is the exact point why the apa holds the line and as a politically oriented organization I don't disagree.
But his reaction was to the young woman wearing booty shorts. Not how any man reacted/treated her. If having a daughter functions as an awakening to morality (whereas having a son doesn’t elicit a similar response), they should probably examine that.
Absolutely. Too many people (men and women) think of women as some kind of cartoon sex creature instead of as just people with unrealistic burdens heaped on them every day by a society that commodifies every aspect of their existence.
I think what Beeds07 friend is feeling is somewhat bullshit. I’ve said it before but attaining some sort of empathy or clarity only when it impacts you is pretty selfish. But, it has nothing to do with thinking about your kids (son or daughter) sex life it’s about understanding that dehumanizing someone is wrong. Treating people like shit is wrong me understanding that doesn’t mean I think I am thinking about my kids sex life.
Women enjoy sex - women like wearing what they feel sexy wearing. I'm sure there are a litany of societal factors involved there - but it's comical to assume that a 18 year old female isn't having sex regularly.
White people realizing law enforcement might be an issue is my only joy I have left, even if they are realizing because they break the law as opposed to just the color of your skin
Further proof that Mina Kimes is exceptionally good at her job/incredibly smart.....and that Clay is a complete moron grifter.