not the hard r, though. we're just so conditioned to only hearing the hard r from white people in situations like this but he definitely said the soft a. but, like I said above, he found out that is also unacceptable in many circumstances. also, she said it a shitload. I honestly think he might have taken more offense at the death threat just because he let her say it to him a bunch and didn't seem to mind.
it was definitely the soft a from both of them but when it comes from a white mouth they are basically the same thing