I'm pretty torn up :/

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  1. fattmante

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    What a difficult situation. Hate that you have to endure that, Sterling.
     
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  2. Toast

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    I'm so sorry Sterling.
     
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  3. FearMySpear

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    Feel awful for you Sterling A. Can’t imagine what you are going thru. Stay strong man
     
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  4. DUCKMOUTH

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    Vent all you want here Sterling. I went through 1/1000000000000 of what you’re going through but, just venting here and the support of e friends/strangers helped me through a tough time. I was surprised and never thought a message board would help, but treating the board as a journal helped me a ton. Stay strong and live your life as she would want you too.

    You and yours is still in my thoughts and prayers
     
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  5. BlazingRebel

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    I am so very sorry man prayers and good thoughts to y'all.
     
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  6. Buster

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    Fuck. So sorry. Just gut wrenching to read.
     
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  7. TC

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    :pray: for Sterling and Darian
     
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  8. dahldennsull

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    likewise. Praying for you both and your/her family Sterling A

    a) that she would recover
    b) that she opens her eyes and is able to respond
    c) that she knows/feels your love for her
    d) strength and peace for you and the family
     
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  9. JeremyLambsFace

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    I don't even know what to say. Can't even imagine.

    I hope you find peace.
     
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  10. Sterling A

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    MAYBE a miracle is happening....

    Things are somewhat changing. NEW plan. They are moving her OUT of comfort care, due to her age, lack of diagnosis and some improvement in neuro function and they want to give her more time which is certainly music to our ears. Looking for a place with Neuro recovery, but can also handle her liver management. She is weaning off the ventilator and actually opening both her eyes now. Godspeed darian. This is fantastic!!! All hope was lost just a day or two ago and we were saying goodbye now maybe just maybe....
     
  11. cdaysker

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    That's awesome man, love hearing that!
     
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  12. ned's head

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    Awesome to hear!
     
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  13. nolecpa

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    Great to hear!!!
     
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  14. CF3234

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  15. CF3234

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    Sterling A did the liver transplant fix whatever destroyed her former liver? or is it recurring? management of the liver should be pretty easy if the new one is healthy and not in danger of a recurrence of the original illness.
     
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  16. lfriend

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    That is cool and good for sure
     
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  17. TC

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    Sterling A yay, awesome man! Fingers crossed for more movement in a positive direction
     
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  18. Buzz

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    Will continue to pray for y'all. Encouraging news!
     
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  19. bigred77

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    Praying for you guys
     
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  20. PCH

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    Let's go Darian!
     
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  21. DUCKMOUTH

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    Keep sharing your love and positive energy with her. I promise she feels it and she sounds like a tough fighter.
     
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  22. bertwing

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    Great to hear. Stay strong for her and she will keep fighting. Continuing to pray for y’all.
     
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  23. i am a bammer

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    Rooting for you and Darian. Ts and Ps
     
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  24. Sterling A

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    The new liver is holding up very well.
    The problem is her spinal cord for lack of a better word "sheath". If that dissolves or weakens anymore then it's the real issue. Which they are doing a huge amount of tests on the next 36 hours and will be able to tell us more then.

    Literally anything is mostly positive at this point, I was in a very bad place as well as most of us a couple nights ago
     
  25. Boo MFer!

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    I’m a huge believer in the power of positive thinking. Keep believing in that miracle, buddy.
     
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  26. laxjoe

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    praying for you man. can't imagine what you're going through but you're in our thoughts and prayers.
     
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  27. CF3234

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    That’s good. Maintaining the liver is easy if there isn’t a fear of a recurrence of the prior illness. Just need to focus on the main issue.
     
  28. BuckeyeRiot

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  29. BlazingRebel

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    :sugar:
     
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  30. Taques

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    thats great man, heres to continued progress
     
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  31. NilesIrish

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    I came in here fearing the worst now I have hope and tears. Let’s fucking go Darian.
     
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  32. The Real Roy Williams

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    I feel the same. If you have a positive attitude things tend to be better. If you have a negative attitude things always turn out bad In my experiences. I’m not talking religious stuff just human energy can help. I think. I know doctors know what to do. The support system can help too. Maybe I’m just a hippy at heart but stay strong and say nice things to her wether she can hear you or not. Maybe she will.
     
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  33. Name P. Redacted

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    Darian is a cool name, unique. Have you ever yelled it like Rocky Balboa saying Adrian Sterling A
     
  34. slhorn

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    I’m glad I came into this party late (with the current news). If I can help I will. Just let me know where to donate.
     
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  35. Eathan Edwards

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    That's great news man, like others have mentioned just be there as much as you can for the family - there's really not anything you can do to have a more positive impact on her potential recovery. I've seen some medical miracles in my personal life, so certainly never give up hope.
     
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  36. Jimmy the Saint

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    Same. Positive thoughts Sterling A :beerchug:
     
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  37. Boo MFer!

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    Totally agree. Spot on.
     
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  38. Jim Brockmire

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    Just checked this thread for the first time in a few days. I'm really excited (for lack of a better word) for this positive turn of events and I hope it continues.

    The power of tmb's t's and p's is real.

    All the best, Sterling.
     
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  39. 941Gator

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    Hope the weekend went well.
     
  40. Corch

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  41. Corky Bucek

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    :feelsbadman: Sterling.

    Just saw this
     
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  42. bingbing

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    Samsies. Sterling was always a laid back funny guy. This is rough.
     
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  43. Sterling A

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    I don't even know what to say. This weekend was sincerely the best weekend of my life no hyperbole. I'm not one to give updates every 30 mins or hour or whatever and don't post on social media stuff like this. Here is her mom's post so you can see how incredible this is. Literally 5 days ago we were crying and holding her hand while she was in a coma with multiple doctors saying "Its time to say goodbye". Well F THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, this is why you get a 2nd opinion and sometimes a 3rd. Positive thoughts, prayers, whatever you want to call it is fine with me, I just can't believe this


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    Im stunned, slept about 4 hours in 5 days and so excited I can't even type this out. Thank you guys for all the messages/DM/posts, honestly thank you. I can't put into words how difficult last week was, and wont be able to describe what has happened for a long time. Ecstatic I guess is the word ill use
     
  44. The Blackfish

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  45. Dairy Queen

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    Damn that’s awesome...hope the good news continues to roll in
     
  46. dblplay1212

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    Awesome. Nice start to Monday!
     
  47. pperc15

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    I'm not crying, you're crying.
     
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