TMB Divorce Thread

What is your native language?

 

I'm just lost as to why this woman's ex-bf and his wife care about what's happening at her mom's house

 

The ex is the father of her kids and they all with with her mom

 

Ah.

Well yes it does seem like a bizarre situation to have your kids living in.

 

They went to court over custody, they ex bf lost the custody case and will now have to start paying child support. Ex’s wife reached out to him to see if she could get some dirt to potentially bring to courts so he gets more time and not have to pay child support

 

I’m still confused and will probably just sit this one out.

 

Who gets the house?

 

mp_22 can you explain how long you have been speaking/learning english

 

That Duke education isn't what it used to be.

 

MP is:
A)a non-native English speaker
B)a teenager
C)white trash for being in this situation
D)all of the above

 

e) suffering from a traumatic brain injury

 

Being a TBI guy, I’ve never seen a more fucked up collection of words.

 

Feel like this line didn't make the cut for devil went down to georgia

 

It absolutely does. 10/10 reference.

 

Signed divorce papers yesterday, been together 9 years. This isn’t a great feeling.

 

You just moved out to CO like a year or two ago right? Wife is in the army or something

 

Yep, nobody to blame but myself. Just a shitty situation.

 

It's never easy - but 100% confident both my ex and myself are dramatically happier post-divorce with our subsequent lifestyle choices.

That was a decade long relationship. Still have a good relationship with each other.

Obviously each marriage is different so wtf knows what is the best move in these situations.

 

Two pieces of advice:
1) Pay for your dating app of choice
2) They all weigh more than their pics

 

I’m just now realizing that I’m relaying divorce advice to someone with a login based on one of my 3-somes.

Things tend to come full circle here guys.

 

You were married prior to your current gf?

 

Me and the ex are happily divorced.

Me and MLS are happily married - hence the LA Window Washer incident.

 

Sorry to hear about this. Whatever the reason I’m sure this is tough. In time you’ll find peace with it and life will feel normal again. Hang in there. It will get better.

 

Felt like this fit well for this thread:

For all of my ridiculousness and shenanigans - I went pretty hard in the paint last night - but this morning I drove to get her breakfast and a lemon tart by approx 8am after she worked 16 hours yesterday.

This is what makes a marriage work. Also threesomes.

 

It's much safer on the donor board.

 

gave it a run, meh.

 

God damn the last 6 or so pages of this thread is a great re-read

 

MP just played “who’s on first?” for 6 pages

 

I miss the pictures

 

did we ever figure out if he’s a non native speaker or just tremendously stupid?

 

Tobias

 

Relationship Question:

Dating someone new, she is leaving her two kids or waiting to they go to bed to come over with a family member and she is spending the night…. then getting home before they wake up.

This is a huge red flag right?

 

Absolutely imo

 

she is leaving them with a family member. She has said they are fine, they are with my sister.

 

That's another red flag imo

 

Huge red flag imo

 

No she is leaving them with her sister

 

Being a parent is hard and I’m sure being a single parent is way harder. She’s doing her best to find time to have a life and be an adult.

I wouldn’t overthink it.

 

The evolution of this thread into identifying/vetting character traits that could eventually lead to divorce is a nice trend.

 

Roll Tide

 

Initially read this as she's leaving them on their own but no, if she's leaving them with a sitter, coming over and just getting up early not seeing anything wrong with that, especially being up front about it.

Pretty much this. It's hard to do all the parent stuff and also make time for yourself. If she's able to stay over for a dick appointment and get up early in time to make lunch, more power to her.

 

Curious as to what the potential red flag behavior is here.

 

I thought my brain was breaking from everyone dancing around the points they were trying to make in the Biden thread about Palestine and then I re-read the mp_22 posts and I realized my mind had new levels to be destroyed

 

Well at first we thought she is leaving them alone
But now we think she is leaving them alone but telling her penis friend that her sister is there with them

 

Leaving kids overnight for any reason is potential red flag behavior. In this situation, there aren’t enough details given to properly judge.

Kids are 10 and 7 and aunty has stayed with them before? No big deal. Kids are 18 months and 6 months and aunty is meeting them for the first time? Red flag behavior.

 

Yeah i can't see anything that looks like a red flag about that. Sounds like a responsible parent. Congrats to all genitals involved

 

I also think the level of protection she is asking for during these sleep overs needs to be a factor in the red flaggyness