adults shouldn’t be fucking kids I guess to some that’s a hot take but I will stand by that but IDK what those ages have to do with this discussion she was 27 and the kid was 16
He was 17 Also its a felony in SC because they made a law where if the kid is at the same school as the adult thats all that matters. Doesnt matter if the kid is legal age or if the teacher/faculty/staff member had any interaction with said student at school or not.
still wrong imo I’m not arguing that she should face any legal consequences or even work related ones. I say that because it’s not a crime in SC and she wasn’t his teacher. My only argument is that I don’t think these type of relationships are normal or healthy that’s why I found back in blacks comment strange. Maybe there wasn’t any coercion but I wouldn’t find it strange if there was. I’m okay if I’m in the minority thinking that.
You think a 17 yr old boy would need to be coerced into having sex with a 27 yr old attractive woman? I think most 17 yr old boys would jump at the opportunity. Agree it's not normal but the weird part falls on the 27 yr old that wants to fuck a 17 year old, bc the 17 yr old wants to fuck anything that moves.
Having sex with teachers or adults in general can have lasting psychological effects and change how you view sex itself for minors. It's hard to believe someone would think otherwise. You don't have a fully formed brain.
The discussion wasn't about if it should happen or not, just about the coercion part. Most 17 yr old boys would not need to be coerced into having sex with a 27 yr old. That's why the responsibility lies in the 27 yr old to not fucking do it.
Daniel Ocean is clearly taking about it with other posters. There were 5 posts on this page when I said it
Having sex with anybody can have lasting effects and change your views That doesn't have anything to do with the fact that a normal 17 year old male has the natural urge to fuck anything breathing The fact that coercion isn't needed is why it's predatory behavior
He was arguing this: I'd argue it's extremely normal for a 17 yr old to want to have sex with a 27 year old. It's not normal for a 27 yr old to want to have sex with a 17 yr old.
Exactly why the teacher is a child predator. She’s the one in the wrong and taking advantage of a kid. The 17 year old is just being a 17 year old and fucking a hot 27 year old.
Feel like I need to weigh in on the topic, I’m kind of an expert at fucking 27 year olds (I’ve actually done it once in real life), and I can assure you, it is a fun thing to do.
I had a summer fling the year after hs. I was 18, she was 42. I had a great time. Looking back, definitely weird af for her but I had a blast. She's almost 70 now.
For a minute I thought we had Daniel and Dbl arguing the age of consent. I was gonna ask to lock this thread, delete and ask everyone to burn their devices
My brother went to army basic training at 17. They let that idiot fire live ammunition, throw grenades, drive tank-like million dollar machines. But it’s unbecoming for him to fuck a 26-year old hottie? no says I.
dblplay1212 Redav Saul Shabazz first and foremost I do think the teacher did something to coerce the kid. Also as someone who was the kid in a similar situation I understood it was wrong and there was some other shit involved that’s not like a normal age appropriate relationship. My first post about coercion was a reply to backinblack23 who said “the kid better not have needed to be coerced”. I thought that was weird and felt that if there was any (however slight) coercion it would be normal because of the type of relationship (a kid fucking a married adult). If you don’t think there was conversation regarding the husband and others finding out or other consequences, fine but I do and thus why I think she had to talk him into being comfortable with the relationship. While I could be wrong I don’t think it’s crazy to think that way.
Yea we'll just agree to disagree. I don't think that 17 yr old gave a flying fuck about her husband. He's 17, he'll stick it in anything. He's nothing thinking past the act at all. A 27 yr old may as well be the Virgin Mary for him. Agree the original comment was odd. If he's the 1% of 17 yr old boys that would need to be coerced, that's cool.
We had an active Chiefs cheerleader teaching in my high school. Any kid that would have hooked up with her would be a god amongst men. I did have some conversations with a good teacher friend of mine (who was not too far out of college themself) and they did say something interesting in that in "normal" jobs, coworkers hook up all the time... proximity to similarly minded and aged horned up people for 8 hours a day will do that. Well, as a recent graduate (i.e. 23-24 years old), this friend spent the majority of their 8 hour day with 17-18 year old kids rather than colleagues... but that inclination for personal connection, chemistry and attraction still manifests. Obviously, it's wrong, given the power imbalances (and maturity differences) but my friend made it sound like sometimes, it just naturally occurs and they couldn't really help it. Obviously, self control exists in some people more than others, but that was an interesting perspective on it IMO.
The hospital I was worked at was a pure slut dungeon. ER nurses hooking up with each other constantly. They had to have a sit-down meeting with HR about it to address the rumors.
Also there are some itt that clearly think a kid having sex with an adult is okay. There are some who think this situation is okay.
Yea mixing 18 and 24 yr olds is a bad idea. Might be a terrible idea but I've always thought a teacher should start out in kindergarten and then work their up. Like you're not teaching high school until you're in your 40's.
When I was a junior, I lived in Fernandina Beach. My math teacher was a 23 year old smoke show recently graduated from UF. I tried, and failed, multiple times to stay after class for some extra credit.
Teaching little children is very different than late teenagers, probably most of which is the actual subject matter you need to be basically an expert on beyond just the emotional differences because of the age.
Not all teaching degrees are similar. My wife is a history teacher who has a BA in history with minors in Chicano/Chicana and African American studies and Masters in Education and History. She is extremely qualified to be a history teacher. She has no business being a kindergarten through 6th grade teacher.
reread my post you quoted then go back and read your posts and tell me you’re not arguing that it’s okay for a 17 year old to fuck a 27 year old. Go back and read the post talking about the hot teachers.
Saying it's normal for a 17 to want to have sex with a 27 yr isn't saying it's OK for it to happen. It's acknowledging the fact that 17 yr old boys are horny little toads that will fuck anything. It's on the adult for it to not happen.
Nah it's the same, "Okay class we're going to read an excerpt from Why Nations Fail and I want you to critically think about how our institutions operate today and..." "Teacher I stuck the pencil up my nose and I'm pooping my pants I need bathroom!!!"