How did you not grab your kid and leave? Even after she calmed down, or there was an opportunity, why not grab him and leave
Hoss Bonaventure if your wife is so poor with common sense gun ownership skills like pointing at you during an argument I’d probably at least be worried about your kid finding it and possibly hurting himself if he’s mobile. I can’t believe I just typed that
Hoss Bonaventure I like it better when you shit your pants than when your wife does aggravated assault. Not trying to be judgmental, but that would be WAY over the line in my house, and doubly so with young Hoss/Hossette present. Hope this turns out better than it seems likely to.
yeah man you’re right. wouldn’t wanna offend the dude who continues to subject his kid to a psychotic and unhinged home life who also finds it appropriate to pull guns on service industry employees who allegedly steal his treats that was my bad i will try to be more sensitive to this lunatic and his even more deranged partner
Among all else in this thread I forgot to reply to this, but Sounds to me like you just became an administrative assistant
She must make a shit load more money than Hoss if she’s tried to poison him, stab him, and points loaded guns at him and he still stays. Hoss needs an immediate restraining order and she needs incarceration
Can't even imagine the mental hoops someone needs to jump through to laugh off their wife trying to kill them multiple times. Non-internet talk. You're endangering your child keeping him in the house. This is sounding like a pre-cursor to a murder-suicide incident coming down the road. You clearly don't give a shit about your own wellbeing but you have a kid now. You and the kid need to be out of the house quickly with you having sole custody. I'm legit furious that you still have your kid in the house and allow him to be around his mom.
Look after two poisoning, an attempted stabbing, and now assault with a firearm, what’s the chances that this is bullshit?
Seriously get the kid out of the house and let him stay with someone responsible if you’re going to continue to subject him to violent outbursts. Think of the long term effects of what you guys are putting him through when he sees mom pull a gun on his dad and point it at his head because you made a joke. That’s legit psychopath behavior. Don’t let your kid grow up in a violent home. I would have already met with a divorce lawyer this morning and would be in a hotel with my son.
Agreed. It's not us bagging on him, but genuine concern for his family. Removing the weapon from the home and getting counseling is the bare minimum. The suggestions for separation aren't that unreasonable either. If you value your kids well being the status quo doesn't sound like a healthy environment.
Can't argue against that. Just might be less overwhelming to implement smaller changes asafp vs huge ones. Remove the gun and sharp knives today. Should be a no brainer. Have the kid stay with family or friends while he talks to his wife. Ask about counseling/meds and lay out ground rules going forward. If she can't live by those then file away. It's not about staying with her but managing the process. If she is that volatile then blind siding her is going to end up as the end game we are fearing. Make it about worrying about everyone and the kid vs we're leaving bc you're a bad wife/mother.
my wife & I both feel terrible if we fight (verbally) in front of our kids. I might kill myself it got to the point of pulling a gun on her And luckily my wife doesn’t know how to use a gun
I’m having trouble figuring out how the safety of your child isn’t top priority unless you are going to have a credibility issue with the police if you leave.
if a student came to my office and told me their parent pulled a gun on the other i’d have to make a report that would almost assuredly result in a home visit from cps/dss shit’s p srs hoss
Hoss Bonaventure Just catching up on the thread but yes - poison, knife, and gun threats/assaults - gtfo and keep a record of everything so you can take your kid safely away.
It's already been discussed in the thread - I was just joking about being relegated to a supporting cast role.
I'll take that deal from my female overlords over the damn phone calls and emails I've been on all day.
Valentine's Day is right around the corner. Write this on the inside of the box: "Why do I need cupid when I've already got you in my sights? Be mine. Love, Hoss"
After Hoss shows posts to the judge, how many legal events will TMB have been involved? The Auburn girl, Dbl’s make a wish thing, any others?
Would be a top 5 trial ever if anyone ever gets subpoenaed for their board posts and they are read to a jury, Pretty sure the board has surpassed mutually assured destruction a bit ago.
I used to run a dominos pizza when I was in college. you could not believe the number of requests there were to do shit like this.