so he didn’t care you’ve been posting pics of his gf and details of his life on the internet ? sounds like a guy that is completely normal
Ok now I see why you put up with her craziness, the living with her mother, the non BJ/sex stuff for a few years.
nope the mom helps watch the kids. She’s hoping to get back the house from the ex. But she hasn’t paid anything on the house since she left him 12 years ago.
Her best friend is 34 recently separated is sleeping with a 20 year old who thinks dude wants to be in a relationship. That’s who she takes relationship advice from
I think situationally it’s not one I’d be diving into. From reading this she isn’t going to get the house back in all likelihood. I think there are other girls out there for you that have much simpler situations, especially given the age gap. You’re going to be throwing away years of your life if you keep going down this path in my opinion. If you think she’s the one then ok, but I think this is worth taking a step back and giving a high level look. Not saying she’s lazy, I don’t know her or her financial situation, but settling on living with mom bc “she helps with the kids” is a giant red flag and I think you need to understand it’s likely given the history here you’re going to become the soul provider if you get hitched regardless of what she might say and I’d put a lot of consideration into that stress, both emotionally and financially.
No one else can be the arbiter of your own personal happiness...... But they can certainly point out some huge red flags for your benefit.